What's the best lube for anal sex?
Silicone, water-based or oil? How to pick a lube for anal sex that feels good and is gentle on your ass, what to avoid, and what works with condoms and toys.
What is an ENM relationship? Open, poly and monogamish explained
What ethical non-monogamy means, the main types from open relationships to polyamory, how common it is among gay and bi men, and how couples set rules that work.
What is expedited partner therapy (EPT)?
Expedited partner therapy lets you pass antibiotics to a partner exposed to chlamydia or gonorrhea. What it is, where it's legal, and a text to send with it.
Can you get HIV or STIs from oral sex?
The HIV risk from oral sex is very low, but gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes and other STIs spread easily through the mouth. What the research shows and how to stay on top of it.
How do you meet up safely with guys from hookup apps?
A practical playbook for gay and bi men meeting guys from Grindr and other apps: checking he’s who he says, keeping your privacy, partying smarter and looking out for each other.
How do you douche before anal sex?
A step-by-step guide to douching before you bottom: what to use, how much water, how far ahead, what to avoid, and what the research says about douching and STIs.
How to tell a partner about an STI anonymously
Free ways to let a hookup know they should get tested without giving your name: health department partner services, anonymous text and email tools, and how to make the message believable.
How to tell a partner you have an STI (with text templates)
Copy-and-send texts for telling a hookup, a regular or a boyfriend about chlamydia, gonorrhea or syphilis, plus how far back to go and what to say if they reply badly.
Kink list: common kinks explained, plus a yes, no, maybe list
A plain list of common kinks and fetishes with what each one means, how many people share them, and a yes, no, maybe list to use with a partner.
Top, bottom, vers and side: what they mean in gay sex
What top, bottom, versatile and side mean, how many gay and bi men pick each label, and how to talk about roles with a partner.
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